I Can’t Deny It – I’m Obsessed about Shoes

It sounds somehow – but I am addicted to shoes. Hey, you can go ahead and cheer me up for that… okay, go ahead and murmur if that’s what I deserve for this obsession. But the truth is that my footwear collection makes me elated. Do you know what, I organize them heel-height by heel-height, and then style by style? My shoe case features ten segments – it is an adjustable piece. I have my shoes lined up according to heels, styles and types (stilettos, sandals, court shoes … just name them). Right now, I’m counting the 56th pair! Are they really much? Sounds more like an obsession right? Well… I confessed from the beginning that I’m a shoe addict.

shoesYou know how it is with parents who have a kid struggling with substance addiction – everyone in my home is looking for who to lay the blame on. I had issues with proper feet alignment when I was a kid; so, both legs had plaster walking casts. My parents are all pointing at the doctor – on my mom’s side, she said the corrective shoes that were always on my feet even when I slept did the havoc.

Here’s the major issue; the mall job I got at a shoe shop was the real genesis of my addiction to shoes. After my initial year in college, I got a summer job at a shoe store; before this time, I had about nine pairs of shoes – which was quite healthy. The store – the Wild Pair was the owner of the store – this made things more tensed for me, since I love this brand.

So, I was determined to surround myself with their shoes – once any of the displayed shoes appeal to me, the next day, it will be sitting comfortably on my shoe-case. It was always a joyous moment for me each time I took a new pair home, and remove it from its container being the first person to do it with the shoe in question. I will run my fingers over the shoes, getting the feel of a brand new shoe; and that, from a name-brand.

Six new pairs of shoes from the store found a better resting place on my shoe case, by the time I was done with the summer job at the shoe store. Guess what, I fully maximized the employee discount to add up to my shoe collection.

Summer holidays over, back in school, the pull to have more pairs could not leave me. My roommate who was also a footwear junkie did not help matters at all – she was my arch-supporter and partner in this obsession. As I speak, the picture of two of us roaming the city is replaying before me – we would set out in search of a shoe-fix all over Boston.

Well, the good part is that we were not spend-thrifts, and we always went for affordable shoes. Don’t think for a moment that we comprised quality – of course, we shopped for price and knew where the discount stores were located! In fact, our regular spots were stores such as Filene’s and Payless. Well guess what? During the next summer, I secured another job with the same shoe store – Wild Pair. Well, this time around, I over did it. Anyway, by the time I graduated, I had different colors, styles and heels you can think of – every cloth had a shoe to pair!


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Imeldific, Anyone?

This term has made it to the dictionary, coined from the Philippine First Lady Imelda Marcos, to mean ostentatious, or too much. She was an icon of beauty and fashion, but her real claim to fame is her Guinness Book of World Record, which is not yet broken at this time.

shoesShe holds the record for being the woman with the most number of shoes, 3,400 pairs, or so the record speaks. There is wild rumors that she has more than these. Wow, that is certainly a lot of shoes! And these shoes are not cheap, either.

How about Carrie Bradshaw, who, instead of asking for an engagement ring, instead asks for “a really big closet”? She, too, has a lot of shoes, and these are top designer shoes that are not very cheap, either. She once had on a $7 t-shirt paired with a $700 shoe. Imelda Marcos may be a woman of means, but Carrie is your regular working class American who is willing to sacrifice everything else for shoes.

There’s nothing wrong with being passionate about something. Some people save just to buy a really nice camera, others scour the dailies and spend all their savings on trips. To each his or her own, is what I would say. But what will be bad is if you are going beyond the limits of your means just to follow this passion. Both Carrie and Imelda don’t have to miss the rent or any meal or a credit card due date, so I should not worry. If you are missing a month’s rent, or need to skip meals because of those gorgeous stilettos, then that’s the time for you to think and re-think.


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Stylish Or Trendy – Does Your Style Have Style?

Would you rather be stylish or trendy? Not sure of the difference? Style is certainly a difficult thing to label. However, when you see a woman with style, you know it. Style is not just about the clothing or the fit; it also embodies confidence and self assurance. Another way to put it is when you are stylish, you wear your clothes. When you are trendy, your clothes wear you.

You can develop “a style” of your own that incorporates the latest fads and trends, yet still pale in comparison to someone who is classically stylish. That’s not to say you should avoid trends. Rather you should pick and choose the ones that work for you. Don’t be trendy for the sake of being trendy.
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For example, if you are older, or heavier, or self conscious, it might be best to leave jeggings alone. If you can’t fully embrace the message your clothing sends and wears it in confidence, you won’t pull the look off. You don’t have to have the latest “style” to look stylish. Some classic lines never go out of style.

On the other hand, trends do come and go. If you are going to be trendy, you have to commit to keeping up with the times because there is nothing worse than wearing clothes that have gone out of style. Comfort and confidence both play a big role when it comes to being stylish, but don’t get lazy either. Just because you love a particular set of clothes, fleece, for example, it doesn’t mean you will look stylish in them.

To pin down the elusive concept of being stylish (and isn’t that what we all strive for?) you do need an eye for classic fashion and merge it with the trends you feel confident in. When in doubt, leave trendy outfits on the rack and go with what you know works.


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