Stylish Or Trendy – Does Your Style Have Style?

Would you rather be stylish or trendy? Not sure of the difference? Style is certainly a difficult thing to label. However, when you see a woman with style, you know it. Style is not just about the clothing or the fit; it also embodies confidence and self assurance. Another way to put it is when you are stylish, you wear your clothes. When you are trendy, your clothes wear you.

You can develop “a style” of your own that incorporates the latest fads and trends, yet still pale in comparison to someone who is classically stylish. That’s not to say you should avoid trends. Rather you should pick and choose the ones that work for you. Don’t be trendy for the sake of being trendy.
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For example, if you are older, or heavier, or self conscious, it might be best to leave jeggings alone. If you can’t fully embrace the message your clothing sends and wears it in confidence, you won’t pull the look off. You don’t have to have the latest “style” to look stylish. Some classic lines never go out of style.

On the other hand, trends do come and go. If you are going to be trendy, you have to commit to keeping up with the times because there is nothing worse than wearing clothes that have gone out of style. Comfort and confidence both play a big role when it comes to being stylish, but don’t get lazy either. Just because you love a particular set of clothes, fleece, for example, it doesn’t mean you will look stylish in them.

To pin down the elusive concept of being stylish (and isn’t that what we all strive for?) you do need an eye for classic fashion and merge it with the trends you feel confident in. When in doubt, leave trendy outfits on the rack and go with what you know works.


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Are You High Maintenance?

Has anyone ever said you were high maintenance? What does that term mean? It usually has a negative connotation when associated with women, or men. Certain objects can be high maintenance, like sports cars, cashmere sweaters, and fine wine. It tends to make objects more desirable, and people less so.

If high maintenance means you require pampering and enjoy being well groomed and dressed stylishly, then can it really be a bad thing? What’s wrong with ladies, or men, wanting the best from life? However, if you think back to the times you have heard a male friend describe someone as high maintenance, it was probably said as an insult.

High MaintenanceI personally don’t see anything at all wrong with dining in the finest restaurants, and wanting to be lavished with nice gifts. The problem comes when you expect it from someone who is imposition by it. Perhaps your date doesn’t like to spend money excessively for high priced restaurants. Maybe your significant other really can’t afford all of the niceties you demand.

Therein lies the problem. If you want the best from life, and can afford to provide it yourself, no one is going to complain. Of course, the best match is to find a partner with the means to provide well for you and who loves doing so.

What makes someone high maintenance is demanding from others what they don’t want to willingly give It could be in the form of material items, or even time spent together. One thing is for sure, being thought of as high maintenance is a good way to put strife into your relationship.

If you demand a lot from your relationships, you should also be willing to give a lot in return. That way both parties feel lavished upon and no one ends up feeling used.


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Do Good Looking People Get Ahead Easier?

If you have suspected that beautiful people get more breaks in life, you may be on to something. Studies have shown that good looking people tend to get better jobs, get the promotions, and make more money than people lacking in the looks department. It was further found that men and women employers alike favored good looking employees so it isn’t necessarily a sexual attraction that’s behind it all.

It has more to do with perception. Someone good looking or at least well groomed, sends a message that he is capable and attends to details. That is the type of person employers want in jobs and to represent the company. It may all happen subconsciously even, but for some reason, the better you look, the better your odds of getting ahead in life.
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So, what if you aren’t all that good looking? Does that mean you are doomed? It actually doesn’t. You can probably think of people who aren’t all that pretty yet they are very attractive for one reason or another. You don’t have to have perfectly chiseled looks to come across well. What you need is to be well groomed and present yourself well.

Always dress well at work or when applying for a job. Pay special attention to your shoes. Believe it or not, your shoes say a lot about you. So much so in fact, that potential employers often times take your shoes into consideration during an interview! You don’t have to spend a lot of money on the latest fashions. Instead, your clothes should fit well and flatter your shape.

Your hair is another aspect under your control. Has your hair professionally styled so it always looks nice to work? If you are dressed well and have neatly coiffed hair, you can make a great impression no matter what your physical traits are. However, you should also work on being the best you can be by controlling your weight and keeping your teeth bright. Self confidence goes a long way towards making you look beautiful too so be confident and put your best foot forward, and you too can be one of the beautiful people!


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